We've all experienced times of conflict and personal struggle.  Times when the assistance and advice of a friend always seemed to lend comfort and ease the burden. Have you ever wondered what it would be like if that friend was one of the world's most revered astrologers, with over 25 years of experience?

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I have decided to put more time and energy into my research. It’s been a pleasure to answer your emails and to help you through some of life’s tough journeys. Everyone who has participated in my Dear Eugenia column has enriched my life and I hope I have improved yours as well.

For those of you who wish to contribute birth data to my research, please enter your information to my medical astrology research listed on my home page. This research is explicitly dealing with cancer and mental health – addiction illness. The focus is on early diagnosis and preventative medicine.

I want to stress how important it is to submit complete and accurate birth data – the time and place of birth.

The following are our 'Dear Eugenia' letters archive:

Article: Unfaithful Geminis

Dear Eugenia,

I'm using your service well. I was hesitant to write a letter because I guess a lot of people may have sent these kinds of letters to you.

The guys whom I have been dating are all Gemini. I thought I would match with them because I am a Libra. However, I find that they tend to go out with more than one girl. The one I would like to talk to you about is also a Gemini (May 26, 1978); I was born October 2, 1973, at 3 AM. Can I have a real relationship with him? Things aren't going well these days and I think he is dating another girl but he doesn't tell me. I know it must be annoying to answer this kind of questions but if you can, hope you can give me an advice. And I hope your site will have a prosperous future.

Libra looking for Love

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Dear Libra looking for Love

Gemini men do match up well to you however they aren't the most reliable partners when they are young. The Gemini in question does not have many planets in that sign and therefore there is a chance that he may be more stable. I feel however that the comparison does indicate that this relationship is probably emotionally deceptive. In other words he is probably not really telling you how he feels. Unless you can open up to one another and communicate freely it isn't likely that it will last. He is quite the ladies man and I'm sure that he does have plenty of opportunities to be with other women. As for you, your chart indicates that you are true blue and that you can be a little jealous if you feel that your partner is not being loyal. It is apparent that you will meet or become serious with someone from your past during the second half of next year. You should consider those born under the signs Aries, Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius in the future. For now you should be focusing on your career and getting ahead professionally.

Eugenia

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Article: The Moon's Effect

Dear Eugenia,

I am a classical Capricorn born on 17/01/76, 11:15 AM. I read that the Moon can have real bad influences on the sign Capricorn. I am wondering if Moon has had bad influences on me especially in my romantic life. Although I had several boy friends (all were Leo's), I was never totally attracted to anyone. I am always in complete control. Is it because of the Saturn- moon angle in my birth chart? Will I continue like this?

I know it sounds awkward but is it a problem that most Capricorn's have?

P?nar

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Dear p?nar

The Moon in your chart falls in the sign Leo and that is one of the reasons that you attract that sign however they are not always the best for you. You have the sign Scorpio in an area that deals with relationships and therefore will eventually clash with most Leo's that you date. You have been experiencing a Neptune transit that is influencing your emotional life causing self-deception, disillusionment and confusion. This transit is moving off your chart however between now and August of next year you will experience another transit that will play havoc with your love life. You should experience plenty of opportunities for love and romance however you will have difficulty choosing the right partner. I suggest that you use our compatibility feature in order to spare yourself ending up with someone who may not be good for you. The problem that you face is that your natal Venus is conjunct your natal Neptune and this can create sorrow and disappointments in love. You have a tendency to jump in too fast with your natal Mars opposite this conjunction and before you know it the relationship ends. This doesn't mean that you can't have a good relationship however it does mean that you must slow down and take your time picking your partners. You are in a high cycle regarding love for the better part of the next year and a half. Use this time wisely and check out all potential mates astrologically for best results.

Eugenia

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Article: From Cancer

Hi Eugenia

I guess I'm reaching out to you because I need the opinion of a person not close to me. I'm currently involved with a man who I think I might be in love with. He's a few years older than I am and he has a girlfriend. He's been with her for at least 2 years. We've been dating (having sex) for the past year. I have developed strong feelings for him and have told him so. He has told me that he isn't ready for marriage but wants to be in a relationship that could lead to that. I want what we have to turn into something more. I want a committed relationship. I have dreams about marrying this man. I just need to know if our relationship is going to develop into something deeper. Does he really want to be with me or is he just wanting me for sex? His birthday is May 13, 1975 and mine is July 8, 1980 at 4 PM. Thank you for you insight.

Cancer

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Hi Cancer

A relationship built on lies, cheating and deceit isn?t likely to progress in a secure and long-lasting manner. The comparison wasn?t great however I must admit that the sex is probably decent. You did not submit his girlfriends date of birth so I can?t tell you how well he matches up to her but I?m assuming it is probably better than the comparison that you have with him. You will be in a high cycle regarding love and relationships beginning this fall. I suggest that you dump this loser who hasn?t had the guts to finish one relationship before he begins another. By doing so you will be free and clear to meet a much better candidate for love later this year when you chart denotes love and romance. You match up well to the signs Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Scorpio and Aquarius.

Eugenia

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