We've all experienced times of conflict and personal struggle. Times when the assistance and advice of a friend always seemed to lend comfort and ease the burden. Have you ever wondered what it would be like if that friend was one of the world's most revered astrologers, with over 25 years of experience?
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The following are our 'Dear Eugenia' letters archive:
Dear Eugenia:
I am a Taurus (May 6, 1971: 1:36pm), and I fell in love with a Capricorn (January 14, 1971 - don't know his birth time). He is perfect for me in every way, and is everything I have ever asked for in a man. However, we had to break up because of a very important obligation that he has in his life; he told me this because he doesn't want to complicate my life, and I realized that, due to his unique situation, we don't have a future together, even though we are both in love with each other and continue to see each other. My question is this: I have a feeling that he's trying to get out of his obligation (of which he's wanted out way before he met me) because he wants to be with me so badly. I don't know if I can love anyone like I love him, so I'm having a very hard time. Do I wait a little longer, or do I continue "playing the field," hoping to find a love that will rival or even surpass the one I have with Mr. Capricorn? Hopefully, you will have some positive words to guide my heart and soul, because, right now, I'm not sure as to what I should do.
Thank you -
Emotionally Ravaged
Dear Emotionally Ravaged
The comparison isn't bad but there is an element of emotional deception, limitation and restriction that's apparent. I believe that under normal circumstances this relationship could work but that is not the case so move on. You need to get out and have fun. Join clubs or organizations that you have an interest in and you will meet like-minded people. You are coming into a high cycle where love is concerned so don't miss out because you are waiting for your Capricorn to get his act together. The fact that you move on may push him to deal with the pending problems that face him. You match up well to those born under the signs Leo and Aquarius.
Eugenia
Hi Eugenia
I need some serious advice" my husband has serious health problems" and he is also a very bad alcoholic which is getting worse every day" he has been charged with drinking and driving five years ago " but he is starting to do it again " my life is hell with him my question should I start making plans to leave or stay a bit longer? I am Cancer born July 3, 1946, at 2:45 PM; he is Capricorn Jan. 18 1946. Hope you can help me thank you.
Cancer
Dear Cancer
Hey girl it's time to move on - what are you waiting for. The comparison was anything but good and although I could see your reason for being with him initially once the spark was gone so was the relationship. You are both coming into your Saturn return next year and I feel strongly that you must re-evaluate your position and make the necessary changes. I fear he will not make the effort on his own but should you leave he may be forced to. Regardless you cannot stick around in hopes that he will improve - this relationship has been over for a long time. You are in a high cycle right now for meeting someone new and you are wasting this opportunity by staying in the situation you are in. Take a deep breath, get moving and don't look back.
Eugenia
Dear Eugenia,
This is my second letter to you, do you take letters with in your own country! Do you feel that people who are not your fellow citizens are not worthy of your attention. I am facing a lot of confusion in my life, my birth date is (13/05/1977) and the girl I love is (16/07/1982) why is every thing going wrong around us when we love each other. What is the future of our relationship? Can we think of marriage??Please help, I am writing this letter with lot of hope and from very far way!!
Regards,
San
Dear San
I answer letters that come from people all over the world. I choose letters based on the content as well as the accuracy of the data that is provided. I'm sorry if you felt that I was avoiding people from your country. As a matter of fact I receive a large number of my mail from your country and have answered many of your fellow countrymen. As for you the comparison with your Cancer girlfriend was not that great. You did not give me much background on your tradition and family beliefs however considering the country that you are from I can only assume that the charts have been checked out by a local astrologer and the results weren't that promising. Your chart indicates that you will meet the love of your life during the second half of next year first half of 2003. What you should be focusing on is your professional career for the next eighteen months. You are likely to meet someone special through work related activities or a colleague. You match up well to those born under the signs Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius and Aquarius.
Eugenia
