Monday, 9th February, 2026

We've all experienced times of conflict and personal struggle.  Times when the assistance and advice of a friend always seemed to lend comfort and ease the burden. Have you ever wondered what it would be like if that friend was one of the world's most revered astrologers, with over 25 years of experience?

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The following are our 'Dear Eugenia' letters archive:

Article: A Tendency to Over Do Things

Dear Eugenia,

I was wondering if you could shed light on a few factors that are taking place in my life right now. One, what effect will Saturn's move into Gemini have on my upcoming future?

Two, I've recently returned to the States where I'm continuing to teach as a language professor, but I'm not so sure this is the place I should put my roots down, can you tell me anything about this?

Three, He's born, 30 November 1956, 7:30 PM, Long Branch, NJ, and technically we just broke up on Sunday. Can this relation have a follow up, if yes should I pursue it or just step back and let things unfold, if no what can I do to prepare for a more fulfilling encounter in the future?

Thank you in advance for your time and help, I know you are very busy, but a simple word from you would really help me to focus....

S.


Dear S.

Saturn will be situated in an area of your chart that will be terrific for socializing and relationships but it will not be so good regarding chronic health and investments. You will have a tendency to over do it in both aspects and therefore you should start to cut back now. With Jupiter also moving through Gemini this will be where the excess begins and once that takes place the limitations that Saturn can bring won't be far behind. If you made your move in May or June of this year, you probably did the right thing however if it was before that time you may make another move between November and February. Your relationship with your Sagittarius does not appear to be all that great for you. I would let it go and move on especially while you have such good transits regarding socializing and meeting potential partners. You match up well to those born under the signs Aries, Libra and Pisces.

Eugenia


Article: Hard Times

Hi Eugenia

I am a single mom who has been looking for love a long time. Every time I get close the guy turns out to be a jerk. I am seeing some one now who is going thru a hard time with his ex-girlfriend. I am trying to be there for him but he doesn't trust me yet. Am I wasting my time? His birthday is April 15 1972 and mine is June 17, 1973, at 7:00 AM. Please help!!!!

Gemini


Dear Gemini

I didn't feel that the comparison was great. With the Neptune Venus opposition I feel that you will have problems with him regarding his social activities as well as his views regarding children. If you want to give him some time fine but you will be coming into a high cycle regarding love and relationships beginning at the end of the summer. These transits can also promote pregnancy, weight gain and being overly sensitive. I believe that if you are still with your Aries friend that you will not be happy and that you may find yourself moving into a situation that will lead to you taking care of more children, him being one of them. You match up well to those born under the signs Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio and Capricorn.

Eugenia


Article: Not Yet Done

Dear Eugenia

I (July 28, 1961 @7am) am still in love with my son's father (born, March 29 1970). We broke up once again and this time he said we were finished. We had been trying on and off for the past nine years, but we never could get past old hurts. I feel that we aren't finished, but I am trying to move on as he did. Currently he is in a relationship that he said he was going to make work. I hear it isn't working because he still has deep feelings for me, yet he won't talk to me. When we are together there is a current of electricity that passes between us. We both want to be together but are scared of rejection, etc. I believe we deserve another chance or is it just wishful thinking. Can we make this relationship work?

Fire


Dear Fire

I do see the connection but I don't necessarily feel that it is a good one. You do have a strong pull toward one another but it is hurtful, damaging and I feel that it was strictly meant to be an affair, not a life long, live in connection. The sooner you both move on and put your differences aside your son will be able to benefit from both of you. As long as you continue this love/hate relationship your son will suffer. Your chart indicates that you are coming into a high cycle regarding love and romance. This can be a period where someone comes back into your life or a period that you meet someone entirely new. Please do not let this man back into your life during this period or you will miss the opportunity to meet someone who can be a good partner and stepfather. Unfortunately I fear that as soon as your ex discovers that you are moving on he will be back in your life big time and this will only result in further rejection. You may be willing to put up with more of the same on again off again relationship but ask yourself if it is fair to do this to your son.

Eugenia


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